Jesus said, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”1 As a Christ follower you are commanded to love others. The urging to love one another appears 59 times in the New Testament2.

Sometimes loving one another requires developing of skills and growing your knowledge so that you can demonstrate your love in the messiness of life. Be equipped and resourced to love others.

Jesus also said, “Love others as well as you love yourself.”3 This is not a command to arrogant self-love and conceit, but shows Jesus assumed His followers would love and care for themselves. Be equipped and resourced love yourself.

Jesus preceded his commandment to love others with “ Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.”4 Be resourced and encouraged to love God.

Welcome to His Heart Ministry Training

His Heart Ministry Training is designed to help with this by providing resources and training to equip communities and individuals to promote healing, hope and purpose (abundant life) in the lives of others. It also has resources for self-care so you can love one another and not burn out. To receive over 30 pages of tips and in-depth ideas for practicing self-care click here


The blogs are an expansion of these ideas to both equip individuals/communities in the support and encouragement of others, and to motivate self-care strategies for sustaining the supporting role. They are posted once a fortnight on the first and third Tuesday of the month at 6pm ACST.

Click the link to read the most read and shared blog ’10 ways to alienate and drive divorced/single again people away from your church’

You Tube Channel

There is a growing collection of video’s under Vicky Legge Channel with a His Heart Ministry Training playlist with videos supporting and extending the content of the website and blogs.

On-line school

Be equipped to love others and yourself, anywhere and anytime through our On-line school.


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From Vicky

Hope. Health. Equip. For a flourishing life. My desire is to provide hope and healing to others in areas of life that stem from my lived experience of divorcesingle parenting and living with a chronic illness (launching 2018). I have a passion to equip ministry workers, to promote abundant life and hope in others, practising self-care to last the distance. I write and teach in both workshops and courses on these subjects. I also write and speak to encourage others in their faith journey as Christ followers. I have separate websites that focus on specific areas of my ministry and passion, all of which link through the umbrella of Vicky Legge Facebook page. Hope. Health. Equip. For a flourishing life





  1. John 13:34-35 NIV
  3. Mark 12:31 The Message
  4. Mark 12:30 NIV


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